Friday, February 24, 2006

If your looking to do the questionnaire for me!?

Greetings All!!

As most of you know I'm attempting to get 500 completed questionnaires...I'm not even at 100 yet so I need all the help I can get. I'm am posting on this post both the questionnaire and mission statement. You can copy and paste them to your own document and then email it to me @ adoptionevolution@yahoo.com. If you rather I can email you the document and it is in a form that you can just tab through and fill in what applys to you.

Thanks so much for all the help you have given me and please pass it on!!

Luv,
Shannon

Adoption Evolution
Mission Statement





Our intent with Adoption Evolution is to make what we know as open adoption, the normal and expected practice in newborn adoption in the United States. We want to educate adopted parents, natural parents, and adoptee’s on the importance of all parties having knowledge of and even knowing each other. Adoption Evolution wants to lift up the experience of adoption by examining and filtering through the terminology and myth’s surrounding it. We believe law’s need to change in regards to adoption. We support the government amending birth certificates for children of adoption. It is our belief that adoptees' should have a birth certificate that includes all parties’ involved names, natural parents and adopted parents.


There is endless evidence that the secrets of adoption are harmful to both child and parents. Adoption Evolution believes we know a way to open up the cloud of secrecy where all adoption triad members will live happy.


Mostly, Adoption Evolution believes that this is not a difficult or confusing process in fact it feels quite rewarding. The easy answer is to just LOVE. Natural parents need to love the adopted family, they are providing for their blood the way they cannot. Adopted parents need to love the natural family they created this beautiful child that the adopted parents cherish so much. Adoptees’ need to love both sets of parents together they have made the adopted child one.


Adoption Evolution believes that there is no room for selfish, greedy, jealous feelings in successful adoption. Mother’s placing a child need to feel as though they gained a family not “gave up” a child. Adoption is not the end instead it is a new beginning with a brand new life.



Love IS the answer


Adoption Evolution Questionnaire for Adoption triad members



In what manner are you a member of the adoption triad?



Was the adoption that you are a part of open or closed?



What do you think is the best thing about adoption?




What are the drawbacks of adoption in your opinion?



After reading the “Adoption Evolution” mission statement is there anything that you do or do not agree with? What are those things?




Adoptee


Do you know your natural family?
Yes
No


Do you have the desire to search and find your natural family? Why or why not?




If you have found or known your natural family is there similarities between you and them, if so what are they?




How does your adoptive family feel about you finding or searching for your natural family?




Do you think that adoption has effected your life in a positive or negative way and how?







Natural Parents


Was the decision to place your child in an adoption yours or was it something you felt pressured into? If you felt pressured who and why?




Do you feel like the choice of adoption worked for you? Why or why not?




Have you search for your child? Why or why not?




If you had the option to participate in open adoption as described in the “Adoption Evolution” mission statement would you? Why or why not?




Over all what is your opinion of adoption?





Adoptive Parents


Why did you choose to adopt?



How would you feel about your adopted child searching and finding their natural parents?




If you had the option to participate in open adoption as described in the “Adoption Evolution” mission statement would you? Why or why not?




Over all has adoption been what you expected? Why or why not?



All adoption triad members

If you could change anything about adoption what would it be?




Share any opinions you may have about what I’m doing here or just opinions about adoption in general.






Thanks again soooooo much!!

2 comments:

HeatherRainbow said...

I have posted your questions and email to another group I belong to.

Unknown said...

Yeah Thank you thank you!!!